Is getting a massage from a guy if you are a guy gay?

[Claydon]

So, I have back problems and when it flares up I go and get several massages of my back from this woman I have been going to for years. I often see men in there going to males for massages and it got me thinking.... is that gay?

Yah, I know getting a massage is gay, blah blah blah I should just man up blah blah blah. However, this would be the only non-western medicine thing I do.

[Yelram]

So, I have back problems and when they flare up I go and get several massages of my back from this woman I have been going to for years. I often see men in there going to males for massages and it got me thinking.... is that gay?

Yah, I know getting a massage is gay, blah blah blah I should just man up blah blah blah. However, this would be the only non-western medicine thing I do.

If you have to ask, you might be yourself.

[Claydon]

If you have to ask, you might be yourself.

I have never really thought about it to be honest. I have seen the same woman for my back problems for years and it is never an issue. If she is not available I do not get it done.

[Trident]

A massage is a massage, either for physiotherapy or relaxation.

Perhaps some are worried about their feeble bodies being judged by a fellow man.

[Da Raider]

A massage is a massage, either for physiotherapy or relaxation.

Perhaps some are worried about their feeble bodies being judged by a fellow man.

actually, I think the majority of us think that whatever topic Claydon discusses automatically makes said topic gay.

[Trident]

actually, I think the majority of us think that whatever topic Claydon discusses automatically makes said topic gay.

That may be so, wrestling bears would probably become a homoerotic discussion about Russian men.

[Da Raider]

That may be so, wrestling bears would probably become a homoerotic discussion about Russian men.

I think that you need to speak with Bear...wait, Jerico.

[The GWD]

http://static1.videosift.com/thumbs/g/eo/Georges_massage.jpg

I think it moved.

[Jericho]

I think that you need to speak with Bear...wait, Jerico.
wait, what?

[UNC]

Where is the "it's never gay" option?

[UNC]

If not for being brainwashed by society...man would stick his dick anywhere without fear of being labeled.

[Trident]

If not for being brainwashed by society...man would stick his dick anywhere without fear of being labeled.

What about fat chicks?

[UNC]

Let's be realistic

[Hoser]

There are 3 times it is gay.

1. When you ask a buddy to give you a rub down
2. You enjoy it, not for the massage, but for the thought of another man touching you
3. You get a happy ending


Other then that is it just a massage, anyone who thinks it is gay has some issues.

I go for a massage once a week since we get them for very cheap through our school medical center, and it is a woman I go see, but she said if my shoulder pain persists I should see the guy that works there.

I also use to go to my girlfriends father for my chiropractic (she does it now), and there is nothing gay about that.

[redsox39]

What if the Balls touch?

[}{arlequin]

why does the 'no' answer have to be qualified w/ medical reasons? can't you just go b/c it simply feels good? you can go to men for the same reasons that women do. they're stronger, harder, and more aj.

if i had more time i'd go 2-3x/week

[Duncndisorderly]

I once got a massage of a blind physiotherapist, it was awesome, his name was ken and his dog licked my foot

[Jericho]

I got a massage comped in Vegas, and it was a dude and it was awesome.

If it's good enough for Johnny Drama, it's good enough for me

[Genius]

If you have the choice between a man and a woman giving you a massage, and you pick the dude, how is that NOT gay?

[Claydon]

If you have the choice between a man and a woman giving you a massage, and you pick the dude, how is that NOT gay?

Perhaps he gave you a massage in the past and was very good at it?

[Genius]

Perhaps he gave you a massage in the past and was very good at it?
There are times when you should care what others think. So if you can deal with having to tell people, "yeah, got a massage yesterday. Could have gone with the chick, but I went with the dude who rubbed me better last time", hey, whatever. I just don't want to ever have to make that statement. That's one of those things that people hear and never quite think about you the same way ever again, even if you're a strapping lumberjack.

[jemeske]

Syndicate gives the best back rubs.

[dick_darlington]

i'd feel a bit weird if a guy gave me a massage.. think of the seinfeld episode, and that's probably why.

my manager at work says that she prefers to have men give her massages. she says the reason is because mens hands are stronger and can get in really deep (yeah, i know that sounded dirty). she said she wants deep tissue massage, not any of that weak crap..

[jemeske]

Yeah, Rich goes way deep.

[jemeske]

It usually hurts at first, but after its all over... Oh, yes!

[jemeske]

Then we snuggle.

[Trident]

Some of you guys are really insecure about your sexuality.

[jemeske]

Pfft. Homo.

[Lone Wolf]

I wouldn't take a foot or cock massage from a man, but a regular massage ... sure

[Trident]

Pfft. Homo.

Come here often?

[dick_darlington]

I wouldn't take a foot massage from a man,
what if he licked your toes afterwards?

[Jericho]

It usually hurts at first, but after its all over... Oh, yes!
Sig gives a better tug job. Soft hands

[POO POO CANNON]

i bet a guy would know how to give a better handjob than a girl.

[heelsguy]

unless you are a pro athlete, any self-respecting male should insist on a female massuse

[jemeske]

Obviously you've never gotten a massage from Richie-poo.

[Angry Ass Messican Dude]

He and I found love by the dashboard lights a time or two.

[jemeske]

He says he doesn't care, but he does.

[Angry Ass Messican Dude]

He's so tender when he's crying.

[jemeske]

And he's such a good sharer.

[Angry Ass Messican Dude]

His hair really smells amazing. Like a field of lavender and vanilla.

[hatepoppy]

so claydon...regardless of the outcome of this pole, u kno ur still a faggot, right?

i mean even if its not gay, it doesnt mean ur not.

[PhilipChocolate]

Claydon ruined this for me. I have a basis because he is the one who made this thread...Yes Claydon, thanks to you, men being massaged by men is gay.

[Candycane]

What will you do when you get the finger wave?

[medlar]

Claydon is worried about getting a stiffie! lolz. If you have to ask youwill get aroused because a sense of touch feels good in a relaxing situation, and if its being administered by a dude, then that makes you gay, not the situation. Is getting your balls handled by your male doctor gay? My advice is to redirect the blood flow to your dick by squeezing your thighs together. Or bite the insides of your cheek.


My soccer coach sometimes gives out deep calf massages if your sitting out a match. It makes me uncomfortable.

[Hoser]

I have yet to even get a semi while getting a massage (always by women so far). I don't see how that would even be a issue.

[Aegis]

IMO men who would go to get one for anything other than medicinal purposes are fags.

There can be no middle ground on this, real men don't need to be rubbed to feel good unless the rubbing makes paste.

[Trident]

You're such a retard. I go for the occassional Turkish bath and fuck me, the massage they give hurts like hell but afterwards you feel awesome.

The anal sex is good too.

[Hoser]

IMO men who would go to get one for anything other than medicinal purposes are fags.

There can be no middle ground on this, real men don't need to be rubbed to feel good unless the rubbing makes paste.

I go for my shoulders and lower back, but I also enjoy them. So if that makes me less of a man then so be it. I am not worried about others thinking I am gay, where it seems many on here do have that problem.

[Trident]

Lulz Hoser iz a big fag

[Pax Britannia]

I'm not a fan of massages, from a male or female. I've never enjoyed being excessively caressed. I'm not a house cat.

[Jericho]

Massages can be therepeutic, you know? It's not a sexual thing

[Le Goat]

I once got a ball massage. Stubbly chin ftw

[Hoser]

Lulz Hoser iz a big fag

I r gay????

[Hoser]

Also anyone who has playing an sport competitively would have no problem with a massage from a guy. I wish we had one when I played hockey, would have helped out a lot.

[Genius]

Look, at some point it's gay. If the dude rubs your ass, is that ok? Because asses can be really sore. At some point, a dude has his hands on you. I guess I'm just not comfortable enough with my sexuality to be gay. I'm ok with that. I could go through life without ever having a man rub my muscles and still consider life complete.

[ShitBreak]

I've never had a full body rub down from a dude, but I'd get my lower back and shoulder rubbed down all the time.

[WigglingWii]

I don't like massages. I feel weird having people touching me that way.

[jemeske]

I usually have my penis and balls rubbed by some dude on the corner. Does that make me gay?

Edit: Also, does it matter if he spits or swallows?

[WigglingWii]

I usually have my penis and balls rubbed by some dude on the corner. Does that make me gay?

No, unless you really enjoyed it.

[Genius]

I usually have my penis and balls rubbed by some dude on the corner. Does that make me gay?

Edit: Also, does it matter if he spits or swallows?
Being gay does not make you gay, only gayesque. Which is like burlesque, without the burl. And with more penis.

[Hoser]

Look, at some point it's gay. If the dude rubs your ass, is that ok? Because asses can be really sore. At some point, a dude has his hands on you. I guess I'm just not comfortable enough with my sexuality to be gay. I'm ok with that. I could go through life without ever having a man rub my muscles and still consider life complete.

My girlfriend dad while adjusting me had to have a hand on one cheek. I had no problem with it. It isn't like it was bare skin or either person was getting off on it.

As for a massage, like I said, if you enjoy it sexually, it is gay, no question, but unless it is my girlfriend giving it to me it is never like that.

And when they do your ass there is a towel on it, so I don't see a problem with it.

Have you ever tag teamed a girl? That should be considered way gayer since you are both naked in the same bed, yet no one has a problem with that?

I just don't see how a massage is seen as a sexual thing.

[Genius]

My girlfriend dad while adjusting me had to have a hand on one cheek. I had no problem with it. It isn't like it was bare skin or either person was getting off on it.

As for a massage, like I said, if you enjoy it sexually, it is gay, no question, but unless it is my girlfriend giving it to me it is never like that.

And when they do your ass there is a towel on it, so I don't see a problem with it.

Have you ever tag teamed a girl? That should be considered way gayer since you are both naked in the same bed, yet no one has a problem with that?

I just don't see how a massage is seen as a sexual thing.
Would you ever give a foot massage to a guy?

[Pax Britannia]

I just don't see how a massage is seen as a sexual thing.

Putting your hands on someone elses naked body is pretty sexual even if you dont intend it to be so.

[Hoser]

I don't agree with that at all. If it was sexual I would have some sort of reaction in the pants region, yet... nothing.

Hell is it sexual when a doctor, male or female cups your nuts or sticks a finger in your ass?

[jemeske]

Depends on if the doctor is hot.

[Archetype]

I don't know if I've ever had one from a guy, but I'd go ahead and assume what Harlequin said: they're stronger and can knead the muscles better. Then again, thinking back, I've only ever had one massage by a professional, so I might associate it too easily with sex.

[Daydreamer]

Look, at some point it's gay. If the dude rubs your ass, is that ok? Because asses can be really sore.


If your ass is sore and there is a dude rubbing it then it is gay.

[Archetype]

Would you ever give a foot massage to a guy?Actually, my grandpa used to give me foot massages. Really weird looking back, but it was so nonchalant at the time.



I don't agree with that at all. If it was sexual I would have some sort of reaction in the pants region, yet... nothing. Have you never had your ears rubbed/nibbled on?

Hell is it sexual when a doctor, male or female cups your nuts or sticks a finger in your ass?
Yes.

[Pax Britannia]

I don't agree with that at all. If it was sexual I would have some sort of reaction in the pants region, yet... nothing.

Hell is it sexual when a doctor, male or female cups your nuts or sticks a finger in your ass?

I guess the real question here is whether or not it's gay. I think we can agree when a male doctor handles your balls the last thing on your mind is sex. Yet the act itself is kinda gay. If you ask me a male massage is gay, i'm not saying your gay for getting one but in my view it is kinda gay.

Just my personal opinion.

[Hoser]

Fair enough, I don't agree, but fair.

[Phil Theehor]

The poll needs a "only if you draw wood" option.

[Claydon]

Massages can be therepeutic, you know? It's not a sexual thing

yup

[Rover]

There are times when you should care what others think. So if you can deal with having to tell people, "yeah, got a massage yesterday. Could have gone with the chick, but I went with the dude who rubbed me better last time", hey, whatever. I just don't want to ever have to make that statement. That's one of those things that people hear and never quite think about you the same way ever again, even if you're a strapping lumberjack.I cut down trees, I skip and jump, I like to press wild flowers, I put on women's clothing and hang around in bars.

Guys don't get or give massages to other guys, unless they're fucking them. Don't believe me? Next time you and your friends are hanging in the bar start rubbing them on the shoulders and back, and see what happens. Or try it the next time you're chilling at their place with some beers. Try giving them a rub down.

What dude? I thought you looked a little tense. You want me to work out those hamstrings?

[Hoser]

Yeah no shit, if you try that shit to some random guy or even to a friend you are going to get a broken nose. But this is their job, a non-sexual job. He see's it as money into his account and the massageee sees it as a way to fix a problem (the reason you would go to a male is they are stronger and can get deeper).

Comparing rubbing some random guy or a friend is not even in the same realm as getting one from a male massage therapist.

[Rover]

If the massage isn't sexual, why would a random guy, or even your friends care? A high five isn't sexual. Nobody would care one way or another if I was giving high fives out all night.

Oddly enough, prostitutes also see their job as non-sexual and as money in their account.

And I bet males do go deeper.

[Hoser]

The fact that you even compare the two is ridiculous. You just don't get it, and thats fine, those who don't are entitled to that, but it says a lot about someone who isn't ok enough with their sexuality to get a massage from a male massage therapist.

[Archetype]

I cut down trees, I skip and jump, I like to press wild flowers, I put on women's clothing and hang around in bars.

Guys don't get or give massages to other guys, unless they're fucking them. Don't believe me? Next time you and your friends are hanging in the bar start rubbing them on the shoulders and back, and see what happens. Or try it the next time you're chilling at their place with some beers. Try giving them a rub down.

What dude? I thought you looked a little tense. You want me to work out those hamstrings?

That's a retarded argument. There's a difference between going to a professional to release muscle tension and having a bud rub your thighs in a bar.

[Archetype]

The fact that you even compare the two is ridiculous. You just don't get it, and thats fine, those who don't are entitled to that, but it says a lot about someone who isn't ok enough with their sexuality to get a massage from a male massage therapist.
Skin is the largest sexual organ, it's reasonable to think one would associate sex and massage.

[Hoser]

Again, it is sexual if you see it as sexual, like with a girl you are banging. But it is not sexual if you do not do it in that context. If neither person is there for sexual purposes then it is not.

Like I said before a doctor checking your cock is not sexual, neither person has any inclination of moving forward and having sex in the office (ok with my family doctor I might, but she is a bombshell).

Also I have never heard the skin as being a sexual organ, but rather just the largest organ in general.

Here is a list of sex organs I found

Female
Bartholin's glands
cervix
clitoris
clitoral hood
clitoral glans (glans clitoridis)
Fallopian tubes
labium
ovaries
Skene's gland
uterus
vagina
vulva


Male
bulbourethral glands
epididymis
penis
foreskin
glans penis
prostate
scrotum
seminal vesicles
testicles

Far to many people are preoccupied with sex. They can find a sexual meaning in almost anything.

[Archetype]

Again, it is sexual if you see it as sexual, like with a girl you are banging. But it is not sexual if you do not do it in that context. If neither person is there for sexual purposes then it is not.

Like I said before a doctor checking your cock is not sexual, neither person has any inclination of moving forward and having sex in the office (ok with my family doctor I might, but she is a bombshell).

I get that, but at the same time, your doctor isn't groping your dick for an hour.

Also I have never heard the skin as being a sexual organ, but rather just the largest organ in general.

What do you mean you've never heard it being the largest sexual organ? That was day one of Sex Ed.

[Rover]

That's a retarded argument. There's a difference between going to a professional to release muscle tension and having a bud rub your thighs in a bar.Really? What's the difference? Because there's money involved?

A massage is pretty basic. I don't look at a massage therapist as the epitome of intellectual thought and endeavor. So, if you could get your friends to give you one on the cheap and save you some money, why not?

Let's say I go to a bar, wait until the college girls are drunk, and get one to blow me in the alley behind the bar. Now, let's say, I skip all the steps and go straight to the hooker on the corner and give her a $20 to blow me in the alley behind the bar. Are you telling me that the blowjob I got from the hooker is somehow different from the blowjob that I got from a co-ed?

Now replace blowjob with massage.

[Archetype]

Really? What's the difference? Because there's money involved?

Environment. It's like the guys offering free mammograms. They aren't hard to do, it's just feeling for lumps, really, but women go to a doctor because there's a certain amount of trust that the doctor doesn't have his other hand on his dick.

A massage is pretty basic. I don't look at a massage therapist as the epitome of intellecutal thought and endeavor. So, if you could get your friends to give you one on the cheap and save you some money, why not?

Have you ever gotten a massage from a pro?

[Hoser]

I get that, but at the same time, your doctor isn't groping your dick for an hour.

If they could do a proper massage in 2 minutes I am sure they would. Some things take longer then others to do.


What do you mean you've never heard it being the largest sexual organ? That was day one of Sex Ed.

Any of these Google links disagree with you. The skin is not used in sexual reproduction.

GOOOOOOGLE search for sex organs (http://www.google.ca/search?rlz=1C1GGLS_enCA304CA305&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=sex+organs)


Rover you make some of the most retarded arguments in this thread.

[Claydon]

the fact that there are 4 pages of posts with regards to this topic proves that you ALL are fags.

<3

[willydong]

i thought mongo fucking random men was passe, not gay... shit...

[willydong]

the fact that there are 4 pages of posts with regards to this topic proves that you ALL are fags.

<3
a/s/l, twink

[Archetype]

Any of these Google links disagree with you. The skin is not used in sexual reproduction.

GOOOOOOGLE search for sex organs (http://www.google.ca/search?rlz=1C1GGLS_enCA304CA305&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=sex+organs)


The largest sexual organ is the skin. The skin is woven with an intricate system of nerves that are responsive to changes in temperature, touch, and texture. High concentrations of nerves in the skin of particular body areas make these areas very sensitive and responsive to stimulation, thus causing sexual arousal and pleasure. These areas are called erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are unique to each individual—any part of the body can be erogenous. Common areas identified as erogenous zones include the neck, earlobes, mouth, lips, nipples, genitalia, buttocks, inner thighs, anus, backs of knees, fingers, and toes.